Monday, April 03, 2006

Well, we certainly agree here…

Some of the best damn advice I’ve ever seen on-line.

You should think before you speak/type/comment; thus avoiding saying that which may be torn to shreds; especially if you can’t handle such a response.

Personally, I feel anyone who is able to write ‘dramatic & over-powering’ anything should be recognized for their abilities and not just left as a blank for other readers to ponder and assume identity; not to mention be pointed out, so that readers are able to verify any implied accusations on their own, rather than just taking some other persons word for it. But hey, that’s just my opinion; and we all agree those are much like assholes, huh?

For the record… I’m not the blonde in the red sports car. Ironically, I kind of wish I was just now.

15 Comments:

Blogger Tainted Female said...

I apologized when I was wrong (even though there is NOTHING that guarantees I was; aside from her word) on the 26th in the comments, then on the 27th by editing the entry. She wrote this a few days later; clearly deciding not to accept my apology.

And AT LEAST when I ranted about the situation, I linked her blog, the comments and my side of the story allowing others to judge (because we all DO, do that) for themselves. But I suppose not pointing directly to the person you’re talking about, makes future denial much, much easier.

But this ‘someone here is blah, blah, blah,’ calling on the ‘Let’s ALL hate tainted but not to her face brigade’ is something else all together.

How many people are now afraid to say anything to me, because of it? Just look at all the wonderful comments made on that entry, “I’ve held my tongue a few times…” blah. How many emails do you think have been passed, “Who is it? Whose blog are you talking about?”

I don’t believe disagreeing with someone and stating your reasons why you disagree can be classified as a, ‘violation’ or ‘shredding to smithereens’ someone’s words.

I do believe in agreeing to disagree.

At the end of the day, she advised me to kidnap my son from his father and run away; and she can’t accept the reality that those very actions are the reason its legally so hard for foreign women to be with their national children during divorce; something I tend to hold very close to my heart, since my divorce lost me more than a year of my sons life.

Her advice is truly fantastic; I wasn’t being sarcastic. And she did compliment my writing style. ‘Blog Wars’ is not my intent here, at all. I just want to make it real clear that I’m 1) Not hiding from her accusations, or my actions (which I’m sure many will assume since I didn’t comment on this earlier), & 2) Not the blonde in the sports car.

6:29 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger flamin said...

ok lemme laugh...............and i'll be back.

hannibal, i got some jalapeno popcorn and pepsi. will that be fine? :P

7:16 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger flamin said...

Okkkk, I just read the comments/links. All I have to say is that, comments/opinions are open for everyone to share. If someone comments on your blog, then you have a right to reply whether it means you're disagreeing with them or not. And in turn, the other person has a right to refute.

It's a cycle. I don't get this though. What was the issue here? The fact that you back-answered or the fact that you disagreed with someone?

7:21 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger samuraisam said...

Blog Wars have been happening a lot behind the scenes for quite a few weeks...

7:35 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger Tainted Female said...

lol... sam is this since I started blogging here?! Now I have to go check my account created date.... to varify..

I assure you, if I'm at 'War' with anyone I'll point 'em out and even link them... I don't believe in 1 sided stories...

What the hell is a BLOG WAR anyway?

And if it goes there, am I allowed to eat pop-corn with you all too?!

7:57 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger samuraisam said...

I'm not inclined to point fingers at anyone, but as of recently, everyone appears to have barely any notion of forethought to anything they blog; more particularly this comment is directed towards commenting on blogs. It all spirals into being out of control very quickly when people start getting personal.

8:19 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger Tainted Female said...

Balushi, honey...

Where have you been young man?!

And sam...

That's the thing about a Blog, really... Forethought isn't obligatory… ;)

8:38 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger Hot Lemon& Honey said...

"It all spirals into being out of control very quickly when people start getting personal. "
Coming from SAM?!!! do you have a double personality???

9:17 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger BuJ said...

i suggest you check the facts before attacking people like that..

seems there has been a misunderstanding but you're taking it personally.

no reference has been made to you anywhere on dubaiinmyface yet you go with your 9mm shooting all over the place...

anyhow.. only worthless flies are attracted by sitting shit.

like i said before.. focus on the positive..it's more fun :)

9:42 PM, April 03, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG THIS IS FUN =)

HL&H you said it so well =))

11:06 PM, April 03, 2006  
Blogger Hot Lemon& Honey said...

Thanks anon...

1:33 AM, April 04, 2006  
Blogger Hot Lemon& Honey said...

poor little sam...poor little sammy...

6:38 AM, April 04, 2006  
Blogger Hot Lemon& Honey said...

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7:21 AM, April 04, 2006  
Blogger Tainted Female said...

Oh MY GOD...

This is NOT at all what I intended or expected would happen here.

I don't even know what to say after reading this thread, or even to whom I should direct my comments.

3:56 PM, April 04, 2006  
Blogger flamin said...

ok peace out u guys or u will be showered with over-charged sarcasm detectors and 1kg of danish butter and a 200dhs voucher to bershka :P

11:26 AM, April 05, 2006  

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